Madison and 2 daddys

So Cade is in jail for 90 days and just before he left, he visited Madison the day before and the week before. That is the most he has seen her in almost 2 years. After he left though, she cant call or talk to him or see him. This is the first time I have ever had to say that she can't. The whole situation with him has stressed her out and she went back to going potty in her pants and even in her bed. Sometimes twice in a night. This is a girl that once she decided she wanted to wear panties, it was at night too. We had maybe 3 accidents at night since then. So I was concerned and could not figure out what was causing this. Tiffany and I were talking and she was acting up so we started asking her questions to see if we could get some insight to what is going on in her little head. Heres what we discovered. She loves everybody, and everybody loves her. She likes when daddy comes to visit but also likes it more when he goes home. He is the only one that loves her just a lil bit and she only loves him a lil bit. Everyone else she opens her arms wide and says this much. So I asked what would make things better and her response was "I want two daddys" why? "Cause then love me all the time". That broke my heart. I said that we would pray on it and that God will send another daddy when its time. Her response was that she will ask her sunday school teacher for one.

Ear piercing

So about a month ago Madison saw someone getting their ears pierced at Clairs in the mall. She decided thats what she wanted for her birthday. I thought that sounded pretty good. She does her chores well and has been keeping her toys picked up in her room pretty well lately too. So last week we went to the mall and Grandma got her ears pierced for an early birthday present. Madi did great! Only a couple tears after it was done and before they gave her a sucker. She let me clean them about the first day then started cleaning them herself. YAY. I saw no wrong about it. Then Cade told his mom about it.......I may as well have gotten Madi a tattoo. I was damaging my daughter by doing that and am forcing her to grow up by letting her get earrings......HELLO it's earrings!! Not a cell phone or a car. I really really do not know what to do about him and his nosy mom. No matter what I do or say, nothing is ok or good enough. I don't feed them right, don't dress them they way she would. I should do everything different down to the names of my kids. And above all else I should ignore the fact that he and them do not see the kids. I should bring them to functions so they don't look bad and pretend they come see them on a regular basis. UGH!!!

I am catching up

So I have a lot of friends that have a blog, I read them but did not have one myself. I have every other imaginable site but no blogs on them to tell the funny stories and comments from my kids. So here I am! I will probably mostly add pictures and little stories, I am not good at the deep thought stuff it takes too much effort ;)